Event Archive

Growing in Romantic Relationships 「侶」程修行

Spring 2023


This workshop enabled students in developing a deeper understanding of the dynamics of romantic relationship, including recognizing and addressing potential issues such as love violence, conflicts, and boundary violations. This involves several key steps, including learning to identify and address emotional blackmail, understanding your own reactions and patterns in conflicts, and setting appropriate boundaries.

Intimate partner violence, including emotional blackmail, can be a serious issue in romantic relationships. By learning to recognize the signs of emotional blackmail and other forms of love violence, individuals can take steps to protect themselves and their partners. Conflicts are a natural part of any relationship, but learning to handle them in a healthy and productive way is a key to grow in a romantic relationship. By focusing on effective communication and working towards mutual understanding and resolution, conflicts can become an opportunity for growth and deepening connection. Finally, setting appropriate boundaries is crucial to maintaining a healthy and respectful romantic relationship. By creating a safe and respectful space for emotional and physical intimacy, individuals can create a foundation for a healthy and fulfilling romantic relationship.

By prioritizing effective communication, mutual respect, and emotional and physical safety, individuals can build a strong and healthy romantic relationship.

Getting Prepared for Romantic Relationships 愛情預備課

Spring 2023


Getting prepared for romantic relationships involves taking steps to protect yourself from potential risks and ensuring that you have a strong sense of self-worth and understanding of your own values.

It is important to be aware of the risks of romance scams and take steps to protect yourself. This can include being cautious about giving out personal information online, being aware of common tactics used by scammers, and using reputable dating sites and apps.

Understanding yourself in the context of your family background can also be important in preparing for romantic relationships. This involves reflecting on how your upbringing and family history may impact your views on relationships, communication, and intimacy. It can also involve identifying any patterns or tendencies that may have been passed down from previous generations. Finally, developing a strong sense of self-value is crucial in recognizing your own worth and setting boundaries that reflect your values and priorities. It also involves being open to growth and learning from past relationships, while also being confident in your own identity and sense of self.

In this workshop, students learned to protect themselves from potential risks, understanding the impact of upbringing, and developing a strong sense of self-value, and get better prepared for romantic relationships with greater confidence and clarity.

Let Yourself Be Happy - Build a Healthy Relationship with Self

Spring 2023


People usually lose themselves when always focusing on things out of their control and pleasing people around them. Sometimes, it is important to move the focus back on ourselves and develop a healthy self-relationship that opens the door to a life of independence, emotional stability, and a better lifestyle.

In this workshop, Ms Fiona Tsang, an experienced counselor from THE COMPANIONS, provided some quiet moments and guided students through some exercises to reflect on their values and cultivate awareness of their physiological reactions, feelings, thoughts. Different coping stances that may affect our way to speak to others and ourselves in stressful situations are also introduced. Ms Tsang also shared cases that illustrated how to apply above concepts in real life situations and ended with some practical tips to help students crave out “me-time” among busy schedule to reflect and grow stronger in face of future challenges.

By the end of the workshop, students have grasped all the essentials that laid foundation for building a healthier relationship with themselves - to accept one's limitations, make the right choices, and take responsibility on our own choices with kindness and compassion.

Give Hope, Give a Hand 伸出援手,重燃希望

Winter 2022


To gear students up as gatekeeper for peers support and the ones whom care about, the Counseling and Wellness center equipped students with suicidal risk assessment skills, intervention strategies, and the understanding of the factors associated with psychiatric disorders involved in suicide.

In this talk, Mr. Ken Lam, Psychiatric-Mental Health Registered Nurse, Counseling and Wellness Center, HKUST, explored the myths and facts of suicide. He offered practical techniques and counselling skills in promptly supporting distressed clients. He also introduced the knowledge of mental state examination to enhance students' understanding of mental disorders.

By the end of the talk, students' abilities are strengthened to identify the suicide risk of people.

[從外而內的發現自己之旅] 心度遊日營 - "Chill" Up Your Heart

Fall 2022


Fully understood that students have been working diligently for their finals. After all the efforts, a mindful break will make space to refresh and recharge. As such, our Center in collaboration with the Hong Kong Federation of Youth Groups (HKFYG), had held a relaxing day camp in Stanley Outdoor Training Camp (赤柱戶外訓練營) for students to “chill” up and reconnect with friends to have an enjoyable time after all the hard work that they put in.

A group of students joined this fun and relaxing day with Suki Chan, Trainer and Camp Manager of HKFYG. In the morning, students had some interactive games, made new friends, and explored themselves through a behavioral assessment - DISC personality test. While, the afternoon session brought students a taste of simple yoga sketching and mindfulness exercise under sunbathing and with the sound of the sea. Students felt relaxed and relieved from stress. Besides, students experienced Pastel Nagomi Art, a form of healing art founded in Japan. Through drawing and sharing, they got connected with peers and within themselves.

After the camp, participants were refreshed and recharged. They also found some insights into the way of self-care and connection with their hearts.

Live Out Your Full Potential Through Self Understanding

Fall 2022


"Studying at University is like swimming in the sea. Everyone is crawling days and nights but no one actually knows where they are heading to."

Our society teaches us to make the most of opportunities and strive for the best outcomes. We follow the crowd, submitting numerous applications and occupying ourselves with unbearable loadings. But how are these things, indeed, related to our life? Am I on the right track?

In this workshop, students learned theories about self-concept development and understood the relationships between self- agency, goal setting and psychological wellbeing. By the end, students should be able to acquire tools to explore and clarify self-understanding.

Sexual Health, Safe Sex and Trauma (Part II)

Fall 2022


According to the WHO (2006), sexual health is “a state of physical, emotional, mental, and social well-being in relation to sexuality… (that) requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination, and violence”

This workshop introduced practical ways to handle traumatic experience, cultivate resilience and wellbeing through the lens of positive psychology.

Dr. WONG Chung Hin Willy is a specialist in psychiatry and the Director of Hong Kong Psychiatry and Integrated Medical Centre. He is also a certified sex therapist of the Hong Kong Association of Sexuality Educators, Researchers and Therapists Limited. Mr. Carl Chung is the founder of Teengineer - Institute of Positive Psychology. He has an extensive experience in promoting the science of well-being and mental health to the public.

Sexual Health, Safe Sex and Trauma (Part I)

Fall 2022


Intimacy, sexuality and sexual expression are basic human needs. Our understanding towards sex and intimacy affects how we see ourselves and the relationships with others. This workshop discussed the relationship between having a healthy view on sexuality and its impacts on overall psychological well-being. By achieving positive relationships, you will enjoy the companionship, excitement, fulfillment of emotional pleasure and love.

Dr. WONG Chung Hin Willy is a specialist in psychiatry and the Director of Hong Kong Psychiatry and Integrated Medical Centre. He is also a certified sex therapist of the Hong Kong Association of Sexuality Educators, Researchers and Therapists Limited. Mr. Hugo Ho has an extensive experience in working with children and youth. He currently focuses on sexual minority services and provides voluntary sex therapy consultation for deprived groups.

We can Heal What We Feel

Fall 2022


Our emotional reactions, moods and attitudes can directly influence our health. When emotions are recognized, understood and expressed, they are as valuable as any available healing intervention. By being aware of and embracing our emotions, we gain access to the healing wisdom that is our natural and biological right. Emotional regulation is learning to tolerate emotional stress and embrace its symptoms. Achieving this can help us build resilience and avert adverse side effects when faced with life’s challenges.

In this workshop, Ms. Ann So, an Educational Psychologist from the Edge Development Center and a Full member of the Division of Educational Psychology from Hong Kong Psychological Society shared with us more about the concept of emotions, the causes, effects, and symptoms of moods to facilitate our self-understanding of emotions. She also introduced some mood regulation strategies based on positive psychology such as lists of pleasantness, and gratitude journals, as well as some strategies of mindfulness and flow experience to help us nurture positive emotions and embrace negative emotions in our daily lives. She pointed out any mood is normal and encouraged us to appreciate any mood we have.

By the end of the workshop, students gained practical tips on how to be aware of own emotions and regulate moods for better facing life’s challenges.

Up with Hope, Down with Dope

Fall 2022


Is substance a blessing? Or is it a curse? Driven by curiosity and peer pressure, we are always tempted to try various substances and drugs as they seem fascinating. However, don’t take it the wrong way! They can wreak havoc to your health and life.

In this talk, Mr. Ken Lam, Psychiatric-Mental Health Registered Nurse, Counseling and Wellness Center of HKUST, strengthened students’ understanding of the prevalent types of substances in Hong Kong, including drugs and alcohol. He also explained the repercussion to our physical well-being and psychosocial functioning induced by substances. Skills to resist the lure of substances were also explored.